Comments on: How to blow me out of the water: http://www.hidinginthebackwaters.com/2005/10/25/how-to-blow-me-out-of-the-water/ Just one more blog on the net. Wed, 02 Nov 2011 14:29:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The "Guy" http://www.hidinginthebackwaters.com/2005/10/25/how-to-blow-me-out-of-the-water/comment-page-1/#comment-37 The "Guy" Tue, 01 Nov 2005 18:23:53 +0000 http://www.s007767.com/blog/?p=182#comment-37 I offer no defense. My emotional immaturity was spectacularly demonstrated in the way I reacted to what was an INCREDIBLE night (There's no way it was his first... he was WAY too good). Sean evoked feelings of such depth that I was unprepared to conform them to the "Framework of Should" I had thought so important. It would be akin to deliberately wrecking your brand new dream car because it wouldn't fit in your 100-year-old garage of rotting wood. I intend my apology as the first step in rebuilding a bridge back to a man of heroic character. I offer no defense. My emotional immaturity was spectacularly demonstrated in the way I reacted to what was an INCREDIBLE night (There’s no way it was his first… he was WAY too good). Sean evoked feelings of such depth that I was unprepared to conform them to the “Framework of Should” I had thought so important. It would be akin to deliberately wrecking your brand new dream car because it wouldn’t fit in your 100-year-old garage of rotting wood. I intend my apology as the first step in rebuilding a bridge back to a man of heroic character.

]]> By: Sean http://www.hidinginthebackwaters.com/2005/10/25/how-to-blow-me-out-of-the-water/comment-page-1/#comment-35 Sean Fri, 28 Oct 2005 21:10:08 +0000 http://www.s007767.com/blog/?p=182#comment-35 Back in '99—when I was thinking about coming out, but still hadn't committed to the idea—I met this guy through a mutual friend. We hit it off and hung out a couple of times. One evening after watching a video at his place we kissed. It was the first time I had ever kissed a guy. When it was over he pretty much asked me to leave and wouldn't speak to me any more. Not exactly the response I was expecting. I would have expected him to pretend not to know me if he ever bumped into me again. Instead, he looked me up and apologized. Whoda thunk? Yes, folks, I was 32 years old and post marriage before I ever kissed a guy. Back in ’99—when I was thinking about coming out, but still hadn’t committed to the idea—I met this guy through a mutual friend. We hit it off and hung out a couple of times. One evening after watching a video at his place we kissed. It was the first time I had ever kissed a guy.

When it was over he pretty much asked me to leave and wouldn’t speak to me any more. Not exactly the response I was expecting.

I would have expected him to pretend not to know me if he ever bumped into me again. Instead, he looked me up and apologized. Whoda thunk?

Yes, folks, I was 32 years old and post marriage before I ever kissed a guy.

]]> By: Greg http://www.hidinginthebackwaters.com/2005/10/25/how-to-blow-me-out-of-the-water/comment-page-1/#comment-34 Greg Fri, 28 Oct 2005 20:44:42 +0000 http://www.s007767.com/blog/?p=182#comment-34 ? ?

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